How one Conversation changed the way i parent… forever
When a new baby arrived, my “easy, gentle” firstborn turned angry, distant, and full of big feelings — until one honest, late-night conversation changed everything. I learned that when children feel truly seen and heard, it can remodel relationships, soften hearts, and anchor connection.
Notes From The Trenches
I’m sharing the honest truth, the messy moments, and the survival tips I wish someone had told me after the birth of my second child when I felt like I was failing everyone.
After School Meltdowns
After-school meltdowns aren’t a sign of failure—they’re a sign of trust and cortisol (the stress hormone) overload. This article dives into the emotional and developmental reasons why kids, especially around six or seven, often fall apart after school. From understanding the stress of their day to practical strategies like balanced snacks, humor, and creating space for connection, you’ll learn how to support your child during this challenging time. With insights from experts like Maggie Dent and Donna Scott, and real-life tips that work, this piece is a guide to becoming your child’s “soft landing” after a long day.
When Boy Anger Feels Like Too Much
Does your son’s anger ever feel like too much? The yelling, the outbursts, the explosive reactions—it can leave you feeling scared, frustrated, and, let’s be honest, like you’ve failed as a parent. I’ve been there. And it’s brutal."
But here’s what I’ve learned: boys don’t just ‘figure it out.’ They need guidance, tools, and support to manage their emotions—and when you understand what’s really going on, everything changes. In this article, I’ll share the insights and strategies that saved my family’s sanity and helped my boys thrive.
What's one more person in the bathroom with you anyway
Have you ever cried on the bathroom floor, baby in one hand, squirt bottle in the other, wondering if you’ll ever feel normal again? Mama, you’re not alone—and this one is for you.
How I build physical and emotional Connection with My Son—One Silly Game at a Time
Does your son ever push you away when you try to hug him? It stings, doesn’t it? But here’s the thing: boys don’t stop needing closeness—they just need it in different ways. This post is about how I’ve learned to meet my boys in their language of affection—through movement, play, and physical connection that actually works for them.
Featuring insights from Dr. Michael Reichert and Dr. Allan Schore, and ideas from Playful Parenting, this one’s for every parent—especially boy moms—who wonders how to bridge that growing gap as their kids pull away from snuggles but still deeply crave connection.
How I Survived Nursing a Newborn While My Toddler Literally Bounced Off the Walls
"When my toddler started throwing himself into walls while I tried to nurse my newborn, my stress level hit an all time high. Desperate for ways to connect with him, but still nurse my colicky new baby, I compiled some really fun and easy ideas to engage with him over the next few weeks, Here I share the simple, sanity-saving solutions that actually worked for us- and a little laughter for those of us who can relate to todder boy insanity.
Walk me Home
Motherhood can be unbearably isolating—especially in the quiet, sleepless hours when doubt and exhaustion flood your mind. I’ve struggled to be honest about those raw, painful moments, afraid to burden others or seem ungrateful for my beautiful children. But I’ve learned that vulnerability is a lifeline. Writing out my feelings, sharing my truth—even with strangers—has brought me relief and connection. If you’re up alone tonight, overwhelmed and tired, know you’re not alone.